Social styles

The 4 Social Types in Every Audience—and Why Knowing Them is Your Secret to Connection

How many of you are one-dimensional speaker?

Mostly info and stats, or mostly stories, or mostly images of your lifestyle, or mostly fun jokes and travels?

Yeah Milan, so?

How you ever wondered why some speakers close and connect more from the stage than others?

Because they understand the social styles and how to connect with them on a deeper level.

Here’s my take after being a speaker on 1 000+ live events locally, internationally and online.

When you step onto that stage, whether it’s in a boardroom, a packed conference hall, or a virtual event, remember this: you’re not just speaking to one audience—you’re speaking to four! Each person in the room processes your message differently, and if you want to truly connect, inspire, and move them into action, you need to understand the social types that show up in every crowd.

The Drivers

These are the go-getters, the fast-paced decision-makers. They want results, clarity, and efficiency. With them, it’s all about cutting to the chase and giving them what they need to take action. Speak with authority, show them the roadmap, and they’re all in!

The Analytical

Oh, they love the details! These folks want data, facts, and proof before they buy into your vision. Give them the information they need to feel confident in their choices. When you take the time to break down the numbers, the “why” behind your words, they’ll appreciate your thoroughness.

The Amiable

The heart-centered souls in the room. They crave connection, trust, and empathy. With them, it’s not about what you say but how you make them feel. Slow down, show vulnerability, and let them know you see them. Build that relationship, and they’ll follow you with unwavering loyalty.

The Expressive

These are your big-vision dreamers. They love the energy, excitement, and possibility. Bring passion to your message, paint a vivid picture of the future, and watch their faces light up. They’re all about the journey, so make them feel like they’re a part of something bigger than themselves.

Now, here’s the magic: When you know who’s in your audience, you can speak to everyone! You become the speaker who makes the Driver nod with approval, the Analytical lean forward with curiosity, the Amiable smile with trust, and the Expressive light up with enthusiasm.

Interesting enough, we are all mix of all 4 types but one is more dominant!

This is what I do! I coach entrepreneurs to connect with all 4 styles and increase impact, income and influence by doing exactly that!

So, as you prepare for your next talk, ask yourself: How can I speak to each type? Because the true power of a message is not in how loudly you speak—but in how deeply you connect. And when you connect with all of them, that’s when your words become a movement.

Go out there and be the light they need. Your audience is waiting for YOU.

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